Building good relationships with daycare providers
This will be an odd goal :) ...
I want to built good relationships with the nursery school teachers of my daugther. I know, this is partly beyond my control, but being an introvert I still want to try my best. The starting position is that I interact with anyone of them several times a week for a minute or so when I catch my daugther from daycare. Sometimes there is a little smalltalk, but it's all very impersonal. I want to build some kind of personal relationship, but I don't want to get on their nerves or to steal their precious time either.
So, I gave this project a little thought and I came up with some ideas on how to start building good relationships.
Note to myself:
- smile!
- pay attention to a neat outward appearance
- one short touch while saying “hello” or “goodbye”
- nuture the relationship with other parents
- what more can I offer (knowledge, skills, bringing some material)?
- showing compassion when necessary
Критерий завершения
100 points (each action from the Action Plan is worth two points, but I can get additional points by additional actions, that are worth one point each)
Личные ресурсы
I am a friendly, nice person
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                    Giving them some information about my daugther12 3 4 5 6 
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                    Asking questions about how my daugther is doing123 4 5 6 
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                    Asking them for advice1 (person A) 2 (person A) 3 (person B) 4 (person B) 5 (person C) 6 (person C) 
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                    Smalltalk1 (person A) 2 (person A) 3 (person B) 4 (person B) 5 (person C) 6 (person C) 
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                    Paying them compliments1 (person A) 2 (person A) 3 (person B) 4 (person B) 5 (person C) 6 (person C) 
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                    Asking personal questions1 (person A) 2 (person B) 3 (person C) 
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                    Having little chats that go beyond small talk1 (person A) 2 (person B) 3 (person C) 
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                    Saying "Thank you" that comes from the heart1 (person A) 2 (person B) 3 (person C) 
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                    Talking nicely about them to other parents1 (person A) 2 (person B) 3 (person C) 
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                    Making a joke that lead to a smile in response1 (person A) 2 (person B) 3 (person C) 
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                    Bring in some ideas myselfidea 1 idea 2 idea 3 idea 4 idea 5 
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                    (Not part of the Action Plan: Here I will note any additional action I took)- asked person D a question (0,5 points) 
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- 12 января 2018, 12:37
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